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So I'm in a relationship with a guy who was my close friend for awhile. I never thought that we would end up going out, but over time our feelings grew and when he asked me out I said yes. Our relationship is great and I'm happy, but my parents don't know about us and I'm sure I should listen to them and wait until college to date. I don't want to break up with him and potentially mess up a relationship, but I'm compelled to obey my parents wishes (which I didn't do in the first place)... What should I do??
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inanna
this story...it really got to me. my mom tells me the same thing, that she wants me to meet an Adventist boy and end up with one because of the consequences of marrying outside the faith. and i never really thought about it that seriously, but after what happened with this marriage, it really got me thinking. thank you so much for posting such a story, i know that a lot of Adventist girls that read this will take in serious consideration of intermarrying.
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Your story touched me so much. It brought back memories of when I was younger and my boilogical father used to abuse my mother right in front of me. I am now 15yrs old and I am still mentally scarred. I am so proud of you and I'm so happy that you have taken your children out of that environment. I will pray for you. God Bless
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thank u for posting this story it opened my mind to see what being unequally yoke ith unbelievers mean so i actually am enlighten to pray and ask God for the perfect patner whensoever he wants me to be in a relationship that story really touched me
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this story really got me thinking.most of the time as young girls,we ignore our parents advice and think that we know what we want and that our parents are talking about their time,which is very different from today.thank u for posting this story,i hope a lot of girls will learn from it.
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wow. this was really sad... it's not many times i say that, but guys really get physical to try and show girls their machoness, ... i'm a guy, and sometimes i take it too far.
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This is my worst nightmare! I would never want this to happen to me or anyone, i don't think it is something someone should go through.
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I think it should also be recognized that abuse does exist in marriages where both are members of the SDA church. Not all "unequally yoked" marriages end in abuse as not all same SDA faith marriages are forever blissful. Believe me I have seen many SDA marriages end in divorce or separation. The key point is to recognize God's leading and direction whatever the professed faith of your potential mate. God will personally let one know how far to take all relationships and when to let them go, both in and out of the church. Please don't believe that because your potential mate is an SDA that you are guaranteed a happy marriage. Let God lead, and he will if we follow. He knows who the abusers are.
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Thanks alot for sharing your story! My boyfriend is very controlling and your story has re-awkakened me to the i am in thank-you.
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i would love a copy of this one for a class that i am teaching if anyone knows where i can get one let me know email me at sparbetty@aol.com BONNIE
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i was wondering if i could get an issue of this i didnt get to read it and i was just wondering
Flag as Inappropriategrace
i would like to read the story, how do i go about it because it seems interesting and im about to get engaged to a non SDA.
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